24 Practical Examples of Frame Control

In every social interaction, one person is more reactive than the other to the words and actions of the person they are communicating with.

Ignoring Intentionally

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Two children and a ball

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The Trial of Hank Rearden

Own the Fun Frame with silly dancing

A man hits on a provocatively dressed woman in the street

Hitler vs Director of the SA

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In a social situation, the person you are talking to says “I need to go”…

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Accuse them of being difficult in a trivial way

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Appeal to their 3rd party credibility

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The old you would have!

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Assumption stacking

Defeat a debate pivot by putting in earphones

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Reframe someone’s ultimatum as a threat

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Suggest a Language Barrier

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Emotional Push-Pull Scenario Game

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Take away someone’s frame after they win a debate

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Refuse questions. Describe fantasies

Explain your jokes

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The Reach-in/Elbow Tap Interruption

Convince those in power with novel information

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The Salsa pickup

Calling out the awkwardness

Oskar Schindler negotiating with the Nazi

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