Sex in Maseratis, Bribery in Mexico

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The 48 Laws of Power
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  • Faking it till you make it kind of works, it will open you up to opportunities you really don’t deserve but then you actually have to do some damn work.
  • Money magnifies your darksides.
  • Intemperance with booze and drugs is sure sign of bad character. It’s not something that should be overlooked.
  • Be careful of the people you do business with, money and profit should not be the sole factor determining who you deal with.
  • Mental health is no laughing matter, if you hang out with crazy people because they are just so much fun, they’ll try to drag you into their insanity. If you end up in the hospital or jail you have only yourself to blame.
  • Gays have a different set of moral and social standards. I’m not saying they are all bad but they aren’t just like normal people —as they like to remind us constantly, they are deviants.
  • I specifically visualized myself in fly suits going to meetings downtown.
  • I didn’t want to be an office drone or laborer, I wanted to be a guy that creatively made deals for a living.
  • I imagined myself living in a cool condo or apartment in a cosmopolitan neighborhood.
  • I visualized myself behind the wheel of sports cars and luxury automobiles.
  • I imagined an adventuresome life of novelty seeking.
  • And of course I imagined myself as a seducer.

Create a 5 Year Self Determination Flowchart

It’s well said that…

We often over estimate what we can achieve in a year and underestimate what we can achieve in 5 years.

In one year it’s likely you’ll be pretty similar to what you are right now.
It’s also pretty hard to say what your life will be like in 10 years
, some people’s lives radically change for the better or worse in 10 years.
However, in half that time your life will likely still have a significant resemblance to what it is now.

  • Education and Learning
  • Family and Friends
  • Finances
  • Health and Fitness
  • Hobbies and Entertainment
  • Relationships and Sex
  • Things and toys
  • Travel and Adventure
  • Where will you live?
  • What would your average day or week look like?
  • All of your 5-year predictions should connect at least loosely to your daily habits. If they don’t consider adding them to your Coach.me dashboard.
  • Specificity is great. Actually, be arbitrarily specific.

In Conclusion

Fate has cursed us with a costly physical imperfection which if you let will define the mediocrity of your life and relationships. It’s probably the first thing people notice about you and it may always be. The mainstream self help platitudes and advice will not get you that far. You need more powerful tools to wrench back control of your life from your selfish genes, the petty tyrants that surround you and your internal demons.

To Summarize

  • Hedonism is fun and it’s not bad but it is playing with fire. Practice a modicum of discipline, self control and long term thinking along with your hedonism to really savor the greater pleasure over the lesser pleasure. Ethical hedonists are the ones who actually thrive in the long term, unprincipled hedonists end up as hopeless, lonely nihilistic losers or dead.
  • With great opportunity comes interpersonal political intrigue. Either become the victim of the machiavellian power dynamics around you or read The 48 Laws of Power and study frame control to yield them to your advantage.
  • If you want an extraordinary life full of amazing experiences, don’t leave it up to dumb luck. Write out, define, refine and visualize what you want your life to be like in 5 years.
  • What matters a lot more than your physical imperfection, your looks and even your intelligence is the tools for personal transformation in your life.

This is a chapter from my mémoire and lifehacking manifesto.

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Adventuring philosopher, Pompous pontificator, Writer, K-Selected Biohacker, Tantric husband, Raconteur & Smart Drug Dealer 🇺🇸

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